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		<title>By: Epiphora</title>
		<link>http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-16407</link>
		<dc:creator>Epiphora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 22 Oct 2010 08:44:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-15944&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Selective Sensualist&lt;/a&gt;: I mostly avoid them. I have other reasons for disliking them, such as how their toys/bags always smell like potheads.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a href="http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-15944" rel="nofollow">Selective Sensualist</a>: I mostly avoid them. I have other reasons for disliking them, such as how their toys/bags always smell like potheads.</p>
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		<title>By: Selective Sensualist</title>
		<link>http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-15944</link>
		<dc:creator>Selective Sensualist</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 16 Oct 2010 00:00:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.  I have been trying to get caught up on this.  How do you currently feel about Don Wands?  I love their glass toys since they are so affordable.  But I&#039;m disappointed in this . . .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow.  I have been trying to get caught up on this.  How do you currently feel about Don Wands?  I love their glass toys since they are so affordable.  But I&#8217;m disappointed in this . . .</p>
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		<title>By: Submissive_D</title>
		<link>http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-5283</link>
		<dc:creator>Submissive_D</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 01 Aug 2009 14:03:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I wouldn&#039;t have expected them to respond to your request and here&#039;s why:

1) As others have said, I&#039;m pretty sure it&#039;s not legal for them to divulge that information. I would expect they&#039;d be especially leery of doing so if they had reason to suspect that you would make the information public on your blog, which they did.

2) Brian directed you to Jason, and asked you to *call* him, which you didn&#039;t do. You had someone else call FOR you, and he happened to not be there at that moment, you didn&#039;t try to call back. Instead, you dug around and found his email, then emailed him (which you&#039;d basically been told not to do.)

3) Whether or not it&#039;s important for you to know (and I&#039;ll admit, I&#039;m curious myself) what happen to Chuck, it&#039;s really  not any of your business, or ours. I have no doubt that it&#039;s been handled.

If I were Brian or anyone from Don Wands, I wouldn&#039;t have given you the information, either. Especially since you seem to have the intent of publishing said info if it were given, and it&#039;s simply not public information. I would say that, in ignoring you, the company is trying to avoid an even bigger public firestorm, and I can&#039;t blame them.

If you yourself had called Jason as you&#039;d been told to do by Brian, you may well have received a response. It&#039;s entirely possible that Jason does indeed get so many emails a day that there&#039;s no way he can get to them all. Especially as he works for a rather large and very well known company, and his email address is, apparently, publicly available. He may not have even read your emails yet- I&#039;m sure he probably gets &lt;i&gt;hundreds&lt;/i&gt; per day.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wouldn&#8217;t have expected them to respond to your request and here&#8217;s why:</p>
<p>1) As others have said, I&#8217;m pretty sure it&#8217;s not legal for them to divulge that information. I would expect they&#8217;d be especially leery of doing so if they had reason to suspect that you would make the information public on your blog, which they did.</p>
<p>2) Brian directed you to Jason, and asked you to *call* him, which you didn&#8217;t do. You had someone else call FOR you, and he happened to not be there at that moment, you didn&#8217;t try to call back. Instead, you dug around and found his email, then emailed him (which you&#8217;d basically been told not to do.)</p>
<p>3) Whether or not it&#8217;s important for you to know (and I&#8217;ll admit, I&#8217;m curious myself) what happen to Chuck, it&#8217;s really  not any of your business, or ours. I have no doubt that it&#8217;s been handled.</p>
<p>If I were Brian or anyone from Don Wands, I wouldn&#8217;t have given you the information, either. Especially since you seem to have the intent of publishing said info if it were given, and it&#8217;s simply not public information. I would say that, in ignoring you, the company is trying to avoid an even bigger public firestorm, and I can&#8217;t blame them.</p>
<p>If you yourself had called Jason as you&#8217;d been told to do by Brian, you may well have received a response. It&#8217;s entirely possible that Jason does indeed get so many emails a day that there&#8217;s no way he can get to them all. Especially as he works for a rather large and very well known company, and his email address is, apparently, publicly available. He may not have even read your emails yet- I&#8217;m sure he probably gets <i>hundreds</i> per day.</p>
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		<title>By: Lilly</title>
		<link>http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-5070</link>
		<dc:creator>Lilly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 24 Jul 2009 03:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sounds like they did the right thing and you got apologies from the right people.  

I don&#039;t think they can tell us about employee operations and honestly, I don&#039;t think I&#039;d want to know.  Seeing that they can tell what was said was poor judgment is enough for me to think they will take steps that are appropriate and necessary within the company.

I am glad that some of the higher-ups contacted you because I really want to like the company.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sounds like they did the right thing and you got apologies from the right people.  </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think they can tell us about employee operations and honestly, I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;d want to know.  Seeing that they can tell what was said was poor judgment is enough for me to think they will take steps that are appropriate and necessary within the company.</p>
<p>I am glad that some of the higher-ups contacted you because I really want to like the company.</p>
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		<title>By: Adriana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Adriana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 19:13:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I am glad to see the apology. Honestly, I&#039;m not overly surprised you didn&#039;t get any more information regarding this employee. In your shoes, I&#039;d be happy enough with an apology.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I am glad to see the apology. Honestly, I&#8217;m not overly surprised you didn&#8217;t get any more information regarding this employee. In your shoes, I&#8217;d be happy enough with an apology.</p>
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		<title>By: EmilyC</title>
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		<dc:creator>EmilyC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Jul 2009 04:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Maybe it&#039;s not that his email was unavailable, but that HE is unavailable by email? Some people get so much email they can&#039;t possibly get through it in a timely manner, or suck at technology and must be reached by phone. Honestly I think if you&#039;re unwilling to try calling the guy, you give up your right to complain about him being unreachable.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Maybe it&#8217;s not that his email was unavailable, but that HE is unavailable by email? Some people get so much email they can&#8217;t possibly get through it in a timely manner, or suck at technology and must be reached by phone. Honestly I think if you&#8217;re unwilling to try calling the guy, you give up your right to complain about him being unreachable.</p>
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		<title>By: Cand86</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cand86</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:47:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Argh.  The whole thing is a confusing mess.  Part of me thinks that maybe they were worried you were out to stir up trouble by asking about Chuck/Don and so they understandably avoided you, and another part of me says that if you call, they should be available, and if you leave a message, they better get back to you.  Being unreachable isn&#039;t cool.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Argh.  The whole thing is a confusing mess.  Part of me thinks that maybe they were worried you were out to stir up trouble by asking about Chuck/Don and so they understandably avoided you, and another part of me says that if you call, they should be available, and if you leave a message, they better get back to you.  Being unreachable isn&#8217;t cool.</p>
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		<title>By: Epiphora</title>
		<link>http://www.heyepiphora.com/2009/07/not-exactly-forgiven/comment-page-1/#comment-4499</link>
		<dc:creator>Epiphora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:42:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-4498&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;Laurel&lt;/a&gt;: You are correct, and I added a footnote to this post to address that. I wasn&#039;t aware of all of that legal stuff until now. Nonetheless, it would be great if Jason would at least respond to my emails and explain exactly what you just said.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#comment-4498" rel="nofollow">Laurel</a>: You are correct, and I added a footnote to this post to address that. I wasn&#8217;t aware of all of that legal stuff until now. Nonetheless, it would be great if Jason would at least respond to my emails and explain exactly what you just said.</p>
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		<title>By: Laurel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Laurel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:40:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Disciplinary actions or simply conversations had with employees about their performance tend to be confidential for legal reasons. I suspect that Brian directed you to Jason because he was not authorized to divulge this kind of information to anyone. Jason, if he is smart, would consult an attorney before answering any correspondence from anyone regarding confidential employee information. They told you the owner was dealing with &quot;Chuck&quot; and I would be surprised if you get any more information than that. They could potentially expose themselves to liability if they gave you more.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Disciplinary actions or simply conversations had with employees about their performance tend to be confidential for legal reasons. I suspect that Brian directed you to Jason because he was not authorized to divulge this kind of information to anyone. Jason, if he is smart, would consult an attorney before answering any correspondence from anyone regarding confidential employee information. They told you the owner was dealing with &#8220;Chuck&#8221; and I would be surprised if you get any more information than that. They could potentially expose themselves to liability if they gave you more.</p>
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		<title>By: Epiphora</title>
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		<dc:creator>Epiphora</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 19:49:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@&lt;a href=&quot;#comment-4496&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;jessie&lt;/a&gt;: Well, Doogie&#039;s and Brian&#039;s email addresses were specific, so I&#039;m pretty sure they&#039;re not the same as Chuck. Not sure if that makes anything better, though.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@<a href="#comment-4496" rel="nofollow">jessie</a>: Well, Doogie&#8217;s and Brian&#8217;s email addresses were specific, so I&#8217;m pretty sure they&#8217;re not the same as Chuck. Not sure if that makes anything better, though.</p>
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